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| My father (left) and my late Uncle Frank (right) on their way to America |
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| 2019 Tweet from Darializa Avila Chevalier |
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| My father (left) and my late Uncle Frank (right) on their way to America |
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| 2019 Tweet from Darializa Avila Chevalier |
After the pandemic, workers in remote-capable jobs spent more time working alone and avoided social activities with their friends, remaining more isolated both during and after work. This pattern was most pronounced among remote workers living alone: They spent entire days without human contact and their mental distress, use of mental healthcare, and antidepressants increased acutely.
Audrey Lister, a partner at Alan Johnson Miller and Associates, has worked at this large Chicago law firm for more than twenty years. She joined the firm straight out of law school. Lister talks about her early days at AJM, when she and her colleague Sam Berger were just starting out together. The two young associates would knock on each other's office doors and visit all the time. Lister says that this kind of close relationship made 'work feel like family,'
When we work remotely, however, we miss out on these surprise office visits and workplace camaraderie.
This begs the question: Do we all need to return to the office in order to engage in social interaction?
My answer to that is a simple no.
Remote work is the way of the future, whether we like it or not.
Many have remarked that remote workers are more productive than in-office workers, and offices themselves are significant expenditures.
So, while I commend employers who are setting the clock back and mandating in-person work, remote work isn't going anywhere.
Thus, it is up to us work-from-home employees to introduce social connections into our day-to-day routines.
That means: go to the neighborhood diner for your lunch break and make an attempt to familiarize yourself with the waitstaff; schedule touchpoints with your colleagues over Zoom, or if possible, in person; and, perhaps most importantly, go out after work.
That latter point is imperative.
Work needn't be your whole life. As I always say, look to see what your community has to offer.
Whether it be a darts or pool league, book club, open mic, or whatever, remote workers must make socialization a priority.
The fabric of our society is unraveling, but we are Americans, and we can stop that unraveling and begin “sewing the repairs,” if you will.
Russell Kirk pointed out decades ago that there are only two alternatives to these extended families of voluntary association: atomic individualism, or compulsory collectivism.
Will the city wait until a kid is killed before making a notoriously dangerous Queens neighborhood safe?That’s what parents who send their children to the Baby Steps daycare in Rego Park are wondering after another near-miss right in front of the early childhood education facility that took out the front fence as well as crushed a memorial to a cyclist killed by a driver in 2017. That crash was in the same week in April 2025 when another driver struck a 5-year-old crossing the street.
Americans, however, need not be subjected to these dangerous intersections.
In an instructive article for Public Square, Robert Steuteville makes the case for roundabouts as a safer alternative to the all-too-quotidian traffic light intersections:
Roundabouts force cars to slow down, thus creating a safer environment for pedestrians to navigate. What's more, unlike the traditional intersection, roundabouts keep traffic flowing.
Carmel, Indiana, Steuteville writes, has a whopping 158 roundabouts.
From the article:
A city with few traffic lights, such as Carmel, needs few turn lanes—which blow out intersection dimensions and make crossing distances much longer. Instead, crossings at roundabout intersections are broken into two, giving pedestrians refuge in the middle. Well-designed roundabouts slow traffic to 20 mph or less—speeds that are much safer for people outside of cars.
This is the way, and other cities should be taking notes.
According to Dr. Virginia Sisiopiku of the University of Alabama at Birmingham, roundabouts reduce severe crashes by 78%.
I'm convinced: roundabouts work. So, the question is: why don't we have them all over the country?
| Citi Field, 5/29/26 |
| Playing at an open mic in Bay Ridge, Brooklyn |
I've written about my local pub's open mic before (see here), but I think a follow up is warranted.
Thursdays at 8:00PM have become a constant in my life. It's when I show up at Kitty's, greet the regulars, and jot my name down on the sign-in sheet, which fills up quick. Tardy artists might have to wait until midnight to play, if at all.
This past Thursday, I played some lighthearted swing tunes, with accompaniment from my friend John on the cajon. For those who don't know, the cajon is a drum that you sit on. For the price of a Guinness, John will be your percussion section for 10-minutes. He busted out the brushes for my two tunes.
This is my third place, and everyone needs one.
Third places, to reiterate, are casual, socially-leveling places outside of home and work. They are a respite from life's obligations. What's needed of you: a loose, easygoing disposition and a willingness to shoot the breeze with others.
You can't be reticent in a third place. I mean, you can, but you'd be missing out on what makes a third place a third place.
Being that I've become rather prolific in the area of loneliness and social isolation, people often ask me: "what is the prescription for the loneliness epidemic?"
My response: "Look to see what your community has to offer."
More often than not, there will be a Facebook page for your town. Or perhaps someone has a blog with listings for nearby events.
In Bay Ridge, we have a helpful site called Queen of the Click, written by a "Bay Ridge resident who makes lists and watches politicians." Want to know the goings-on in Bay Ridge? Queen of the Click is the site to check out. Every locality ought to have one.
We're lucky to have such a helpful tool here. Every town, though, will have some resources that can be utilized. You just have to be proactive.
Try things. Some will stick; some won't. The key is exploration.
So, what are you waiting for? Go find your third place.
What true American wouldn't want to play catch one more time with their father?
"I experienced the sixties."
"No, I think you had two fifties and went right on into the seventies."
This exchange during a school board meeting between Annie Kinsella, the wife of protagonist Ray Kinsella, and a woman intent on the removal of books from an Iowa public school district, and much of the plot of 1989's Field of Dreams, is meant to put the 1960s generation on a pedestal of moral righteousness. I do not fundamentally disagree with this take recently from Jack Posobiec about its intent.
Field of Dreams was written for former 60s radicals to tell themselves how great they are even though they sold out. Love the baseball parts but the rest of the plot is so self-serving and dumb
— Jack Posobiec (@JackPosobiec) May 14, 2026
However, like with 1994's Forrest Gump, one of my favorite genres is the "accidental conservative or traditional values" film.
Yes, the film was written by a radical or from the ranks of Hollywood's liberal class, yet its conclusion, themes, and takeaways end up being decidedly conservative, whether they were going for that or not.
The fundamental conservative values of the sport of baseball have been well established by conservative commentators like George Will. I don't have to rehash them here. But the rest of the plot and scenery of Field of Dreams is very hippie, radical, and steeped in 1960's main character lore.
"Oh my God! You're from the sixties." For every reference, there is a derisive comment about the decade that follows. There is a disillusionment that has set in to the decade's true believers that I predict will soon happen with many of the fellow travelers of our current era.
The 1960s radical son who wouldn't have a catch with his father merely serves as a precursor to the magic flight that takes shape at the end of the story. The son does play catch and reconcile with his father, and even gets to do it when they are both young.
The reclusive writer, Terence Mann, a loosely-based stand-in for the real life-J.D. Salinger (The Catcher in the Rye), takes a magic flight of his own by seeing exactly what Ray and his family get to see, the baseball players from the past like Shoeless Joe Jackson playing right before them. His dream is presumably fulfilled just as the people are coming to the middle American farm in Iowa and the end credits are rolling, as he is off-screen eating popcorn next to Shoeless Joe and watching the Brooklyn Dodgers play at Ebbets Field.
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| Shoeless Joe Jackson in Field of Dreams |
Then there is Moonlight Graham, the small-town Chisholm, Minnesota doctor who told Ray, and the audience, that if he had only gotten to be "a doctor for five minutes, now that would've been a tragedy." When this film was released, free agent salaries in baseball were beginning to truly explode, and we were just a half-a-decade away from the 1994 players strike which drove a dagger through the heart of America's pastime. The message: being a small-town doctor with generosity of spirit is greater than having an extensive page on baseball reference.
Then there is even the closest thing the story has to an antagonist. The brother-in-law who represents the interests of the bank and wants to foreclose on the loan and therefore, end the field of dreams. By the end, he too can see the players. This is a story about belief, about familial and spiritual reconciliation
The film is littered with conservative and return-to-tradition messages in the end, and the hippie wife Annie is increasingly losing the argument today against the big meanie conservative school board activist in the public imagination. America doesn't want to ban The Boat Rocker, it just questions whether explicit and sexual material should be available in a K-12 school. Considering America's so-called "banned book list" is entirely made up of the most available books ever, more and more people are catching on to this sort of gaslighting.
Field of Dreams, Forrest Gump, and a whole host of films made in the late 1980s and first half of the 1990s all have one thing in common: these conservative-in-message films written by Hollywood liberals were being made when the baton of leadership in the culture was transitioning from the Greatest Generation to the Baby Boomers.
In the next decade or so, a similar transition will be taking place from Baby Boomers to Millennials and the surrounding generations. It has already started, but it will accelerate.
Understandably, right now the culture is not too kind to the legacy of the baby boomers, but for the elders, the children, and the squeezed and stressed out generations in between, I hope the rising political coalition and rising generation takes a long hard look every spring and summer at the true message behind this 1989 classic rather than writing it off. And I hope we make some new Capra-esque magic of our own, because our culture sure could use it.
Whether we agree or get along or not, what true American wouldn't want to play catch one more time with their father? And even if you cannot or do not, you can always revisit the times you did through the magic flight of America's great game of baseball.
Troy M. Olson is an Army Veteran, lawyer by training, and co-author of ‘The Emerging Populist Majority’ available at Amazon, Barnes and Noble, and Target. He is the Sergeant-at-Arms of the New York Young Republican Club and co-founder of its Veterans Caucus. He has appeared on CNN, CBS, and OAN. He lives in New York City with his wife and son, and is the 3rd Vice Commander (“Americanism” pillar) of the first new American Legion Post in the city in years, Post 917. You can follow him on X/Twitter and Substack at @TroyMOlson
Is it far-fetched to think that liberalism and its strong emphasis on the individual have played a role in bringing us to our present, unhappy condition—and offers little guidance about how to reverse course and chart a path toward a society more likely to protect human dignity and sustain a culture of freedom?The answer is, of course, no. No, it's not far-fetched to say that the excesses of liberalism have worked to our own collective detriment. Liberty without order leads to decadence, profligacy, and overall moral decay. Plain and simple.
They suffered. They seriously suffered. And that means, of course, that they're not going to be decadent. They're going to realize that high living standards are something fragile. They're going to also be inculcated with certain ideas that were prominent at the time: ethnocentrism, patriotism, religion, the idea that there's something greater, the idea that there's something eternal, the idea that you should sacrifice your own good for the good of the group.The ruling class's ethos was that of small-c conservatism and communitarian values.
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| Screenshot from Frankly Fukuyama on YouTube |
We don't accept a common set of facts on issues like vaccine safety or election integrity, and live by a series of conspiracy theories that inform us that things are not what they seem and are being manipulated by hidden elites.
In fact, in laboratory research, while most participants won’t endorse the idea that another person is actually a cockroach or snake (i.e., dehumanization), they will readily agree that another person doesn’t experience as many emotions as they themselves do (i.e., infra-humanization).Forcum continues: "Any time we suggest, no matter how subtly, that someone lacks the qualities that make humans uniquely human, it’s a steppingstone to full-on dehumanization."
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